JUST BELIEVE

Went to church yesterday, it was our church eight years anniversary celebration. Even though Bubu didn't let me concentrate much with her " mummy i wan to pee...." every second, i managed to grab a few things from what the guest speaker was saying... he was preaching on the awesomeness of God and why we should not be afraid as long as we have him on our side.   why the fear really....why do we fear...? some times fear of the unknown...when will this happen, when will that happen... how do i achieve this and that? well i got good news for you ...all things are possible with a little believe.....JUST BELIEVE and remember "if God be for us, who can be against us?" We closed very late from church yesterday.. but it was worth it.... i enjoyed every bit in his presence. So to every member of RCCG solution center..I say Happy eight years ANNIVERSARY..

I LIKE............

I was just thinking of it really....what is the point in getting oneself unhappy when you actually have a choice.I remember the saying : "you either choose to cry yourself to happiness or laugh your way through it but make sure you are happy..." well i choose to laugh my way through... crying gives me HEADACHE. ha ha ha ha ha  ha ha ha ha ......Join me.

SPEECHLESS

I am speechless...guess i am just too tired. I just took a drug that has been itching ...and has knocked me off completely.....You want to say a little prayer? pls do...i guess it will help....THANK YOU...........

WOULD YOU HATE YOUR MUM IF SHE HAD ONE EYE?

I was watching a reality show on TV over the weekend "the supermom" (a show that let contestants tell stories of what their mothers have been through for them and the viewer is asked to vote at the end) there were different touchy stories that i was so confused on who should be the winning mother.... Mothers are indeed very SPECIAL you will agree with me. While i was still thinking of the peculiarity of mothers, i remembered a piece i read sometime...on the net...i actually copied it to my computer... Enjoy the story......

My mom only had one eye. I hated her, she was such an EMBARRASSMENT. There was this one day during elementary school. I remember that it was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarrassed. How could she do this to me? I threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school..My friends made a joke of it."Your mom only has one eye….I wished that my mom would just disappear from this world so I said to my mom, "Mom, why don't you have the other eye?! You're only going to make me a laughingstock. Why don't you just die?" My mom did not respond. I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I'd wanted to say all this time..
That night...I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly,. I took a look at her, and then turned away. Ah…is it Because of the thing I had said to her earlier? This made me hate her even more…. It was disgusting watching her cry out of her one eye.

well I told myself that I would grow up and become successful, because I hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty….
Then I studied really hard. I left my mother and came to Lagos to study, I completed my studies got a job then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. Then I had kids, too. I was living happily as a successful woman. I liked it here because it's a place that doesn't remind me of my mom.
This happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when someone unexpected came to see me "What?! Who's this?!"... It was my mother...Still with her one eye. It felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. My little boy ran away, scared of my mom's eye.
And I asked her, "Who are you? I don't know you!!!". I screamed at her "How dare you come to my house and scare my son! Get out here now!" And to this, my mother quietly answered, "oh, I'm so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared. Thank goodness... she doesn't recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn't going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life.
One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. Well I made up my mind I was going back to Kano for the reunion. After the reunion, I went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house...just out of curiosity and there, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand.... that read…..

My daughter

I think my life has been long enough now, I won't visit Lagos anymore... but would it be too much to ask if I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much. And I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the school...for you... I'm sorry that I only have one eye, and I was an embarrassment tor you. You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye... so I gave you mine..

I was so proud of my daughter that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did. The couple times that you were angry with me. I thought to myself, 'it's because she loves me.' I miss the times when you were still young around me.
I miss you so much. I love you. You mean the world to me. My world shattered! Then I cried for the person who lived for me… my Mother…wish I had one more chance to right my wrong…..

Imagine what the world would be without our mothers... while we still have the chance, lets make it up .... the NINE months isn't a joke i tell you....

MY BUBU AND I

Alright i bought pineapple and cheese balls on my way home from work yesterday for Bubu (Buddy) my two year old daughter.(she loves pineapple so much) as usually she was so excited seeing me home "mummy welcome! mummy welcome!" i gave her the pack (pineapple and cheese balls) Bubu finished her pack and asked for more...(like i wasn't expecting that) no!! i refused to give her more (it would be too much for her...cos we took some cheese balls for summer school in the morning) and my Bubu started displaying the two year old's tantrums....she refused to take her bath, refused to eat...and wouldn't do her homework unless she writes with two pencils...did i spank her? Oh yes!! i did....( I AM AFRICAN )

I want to write with Two pencils!!

        
well eventually she had her way...( Honi gave her some more...) and she was happy again..(we became friends once more) she settled and did her home work...(write ONE to TEN) she can now write ONE to SEVEN on her own..ha ha...We watched "Dora the Explorer" together and played our usual game of "tickle me mummy"

Tickle me mummy

Bubu eventually slept off...Ah i hissed  a big sigh of relief (cos i can't sleep until she does)...This morning Bubu woke up and insisted i brush her teeth, bath, feed her and drop her off at summer school...well i did...or do i have a choice....

YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT CAN BRING SMILES TO YOUR FACE...

You know some times weird things happen....things that a lot of people frown at, but you find your self laughing... today one of such things happened...two grown men, responsible looking, suit wearing men parked their cars in the middle of the road and started fighting...m..mm.m you can imagine the screams from drivers behind them..."get out of the road" "you idiots" "stupid men" "mad men" it just went on.... i was behind as well but all i could do was laugh....i mean it was so funny...i found my self not caring  if i get to work late...well we all got down (those behind) to find a solution to the "madness" but more "madness" started....two other men started arguing and before we could say "Jack" they too started fighting..... there was total confusion, everywhere was blocked. and what did i do still....LAUGH i just could not understand the whole drama unfolding right in front of me. well eventually the whole drama subsided and i laughed all the way to work....oh ..and  i forgot to take a pix...Don't mind me....

FEELS SO...OOOOOOOOO GOOD..

You see i love to write.. yeah!! Just anything..(may not be a pretty good writer) LOL ..and i used to do it on blogger.. but i got bored...so bored i don't know why.....guess there wasn't much going on in my life then....but now i am back to my hubby...and i tell you i have a hand full of stuff going on right now..from Bubu to Honi to..my peeps at work...and can't wait to share  I"M BACK!!!!